A summer destination wedding at the Grafton Inn feels like stepping into a slower, more intentional rhythm. For this couple, traveling from Brooklyn to Grafton, Vermont wasn’t just about choosing a beautiful venue for the weekend. Instead, it was about creating space for connection, flexibility, and a celebration that reflected who they truly are.

Because neither family was local, the weekend naturally became a gathering point. The Grafton Inn offered the perfect setting for that blend. Historic charm, rolling greenery, and a quiet New England atmosphere made everyone feel grounded from the moment they arrived. As a result, the weekend felt less like an event and more like a shared experience.

From the start, the couple leaned away from rigid traditions. While they drew inspiration from non-American wedding customs, they ultimately chose to create their own flow. That mindset shaped the entire day. The morning began quietly, with each partner spending time separately with their family. These moments felt calm and meaningful. Soon after, they shared a first look, giving themselves time to connect before the celebration unfolded.

Following the ceremony, the day truly took an unexpected and thoughtful turn. Instead of rushing guests straight into dinner, the extension of cocktail hour is on the timeline. For the first thirty minutes, drinks and appetizers are available to guests mingled freely. Then, before dinner even began, toasts took place during golden hour.

This choice changed everything. Guests stood together outdoors, glass in hand, as heartfelt words fill the air. The atmosphere felt relaxed yet emotional. Laughter and cheers carried through the warm Vermont light. Because dinner was still being prepared, nothing felt rushed. Instead, the focus stayed exactly where it should—on the couple and the people who love them.

Afterward, everyone moved inside for dinner. Notably, there were no formalities during the meal. No interruptions. No schedules to watch. Guests and the couple were able to fully enjoy their food and conversations. At the same time, vendors are able to recharge and pause to eat.

Vendor Team: Venue: @graftoninnvermont || Photo: @jessrenephotos Assistance @ellememe @thecombscreative @lovescascade || HMU: @mountainstyles802 & @makenacouturebeauty  || Brides Attire: @lovelybride || Grooms Attire: @suitsupply || DJ: @allstar_weddings || Florist: @fastponyflowers || Caterer: @graftoninnvermont || Bakery: @graftoninnvermont & @laelcakes

Ultimately, a summer destination wedding at the Grafton Inn is proof that there is no “right” way to plan a wedding day. Traditions can be reworked. Timelines can be flexible. When couples allow themselves that freedom, the result feels more personal, more relaxed, and far more memorable.

For couples planning a destination wedding in Vermont—or anywhere—this celebration serves as a reminder: your day should unfold in a way that feels natural to you. Reach out to Jess René team to document your summer destination wedding.